Adolescent boys- that critical window

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  Generally, women are more reluctant to fight than men. And when they do, men tend to focus on the abstract, bullshit social construct of “winning” and women are just there to hurt you.  -Rory Miller
Thursday 8-18: walk 2 miles.

BJJ in Bellevue. All spars. Got worked over by a few higher belts, and coached a few white belts.

Dave has his black belt!!!!!!! So exciting. He was walking in as I pulled into the parking lot, so I leaned out the window and shrieked, “LOOK AT THAT BLACK BELT!!!!!”  Then I called him “Professor” at every possible opportunity.  As we rolled, he said that he didn’t feel like a black belt. He said this *as* he was tapping me out.

Amber and Jacquelin got their blues (yay, more colored belt women), Kara got a stripe, Jim got his black. (I managed to escape yet another promotion cycle unstriped.)  I’m happy for them, but I am conscious of how much less stressful the whole process is for me when I’m not getting promoted any more.

Thursday 8-25: walk 2 miles.

BJJ in Kirkland. Some guard passes. Having a little trouble distinguishing left from right, as usual… my partner did too…. and then we did another pass that involved the same entry only changing sides for the part we were both having trouble with. Good thing this wasn’t a Carlos class, where we would have had to do a bunch of rounds of both at the end….. I think our  heads would have exploded. We ended with head-and-arm chokes. I continue to struggle to remember which side to jump to (it’s the side where you have their arm).  Next, swinging around and armbarring the opposite side. It is worth trying to keep in mind that you don’t always have to focus on the near arm.

A few spars. I felt like a purple belt today (which is rare). I dominated two FRAMO’s who usually dominate me- even tapping each of them once. Then Amber brought me back down to earth by pwn’ing me all over the mat. My goal for the day was to not get caught in her triangle. There were a couple of near misses, but I succeeded in that. She had to tap me with other stuff.   🙂  I rolled with her son, which was great fun. He reminds me of Will when he was little. Will got visibly bigger every class. There was a tiny window of about four days when we were the same size, and I could still tap him sometimes.  Then it was all over, ha ha.  Ten is just hitting the point where his legs are starting to sprout, and I told him that in another couple of years when they are twice as long as they are now, he is going to be a monster.  I hope I get to roll with him during the window.

On the whole, I left feeling really good.

Master Worlds, and GB Northwest kicked ass and took names. Carlos, Cindy, Christy, John, Anica.

Having some trouble with motivation these past 2 weeks…. skipped both Fridays. Once because it was really hot; the other Friday I was already on the eastside with the gear, and I just decided I was too fucking tired.