Rodrigo doesn’t hate me. Everything else is secondary.
He had actually called JB to try to track down a phone number for me (I had changed mine several months ago and never updated the info at the school), and left me a voice mail saying he wanted to talk to me. Tonight I went to the Bellevue school before class and took him out to sit in my car and talk (no more drama scenes in the front lobby for the general viewing audience, thank you very much).
I made it clear that no disrespect or disloyalty had been intended, and that had I known what an upset this would be, I would have discussed it with him first.
He made it clear that he is well aware of numerous students (including me) crosstraining with Cindy and he is cool with it. It did sound like that revelation might have been news to Carlos, though, which explains some of his reaction.
He does want us all to come to some sort of understanding of what we’re going to do regarding promotions, cornering at tournaments, and maybe a couple of other issues- that won’t have anyone stepping on anyone’s toes. I feel that those items can be worked out.
He did not beat around the bush regarding the issue of the Revolution "team trophy" points. GB is competitive and wants that team trophy badly. If GB loses to Lotus Club by 2 points, and they could have had two more points had I not double-repped, I will not be the most popular girl around the school for a while. Sleeper Athletics doesn’t have enough people in the tournament to be competitive for the team trophy, and it’s entirely possible that Cindy doesn’t give a fig for those "points". In which case, it would smooth things over politically for me at Gracie Barra if I told the tournament staff that GB could have all my (highly theoretical) points. I don’t have much time left to try to broach that conversation with Cindy, but we’ll see. And if there’s a next time, we can make sure to discuss that.
We discussed a few other respect and loyalty issues, and traditions, and tried to make sure we were on the same page. Didn’t have enough time, because he had to go teach the class, but we can talk some more later.
I’m just really, really relieved that Rodrigo doesn’t hate me. I hope that he can smooth things out a little with Carlos. Carlos, I fear, may well still hate me. I’m not kicked out of the school. But Carlos is teaching enough of the classes that if I can’t deal with him, it’s going to be impractical for me to try to train at GB.
I may go to class tomorrow morning at GB Seattle. It will mean facing Carlos, but at least Rodrigo will be there as well. It would be so nice if Carlos and I could establish some kind of bearable-if-uneasy truce before we run into each other at the tournament…. although it will be pretty hard for me if I go in there tomorrow and he completely snubs me.
I also hope gossip of the situation has not spread all over the school. Pat has a big mouth!
JB and I tried to go to Cindy’s class this morning, but it was cancelled because Cindy has the flu. I wonder if one of us infected the other on Sunday night. I hope Ian and the other Revolution entrants who were there didn’t catch the virus as well. I have been sick since Sunday night. Tuesday and yesterday it seemed to be tapering off, but today it had rebounded. I hope it clears up by Saturday, now that it’s looking like the tournament might actually be a go.
Kung fu tonight…. we got locked out of our building because it’s Veterans’ Day, so we had to make shift with outside…. wet and cold and dark! We did a build-a-form to warm up, then some armlocks. Once again frustrated with trying to do locks on Nemesis… but I did somewhat better on SK and DD.
SK finally got an x-ray done on the wrist that has been hinky since April, and turns out it is BROKEN! So no more BJJ for him, and light on the kung fu, for who knows how long. Hope he won’t need surgery…. but it’s good that he now knows what the problem is.